I hope you made your list of what you love – or at least tried. If you did – Contratulations! It may not seem like a big deal, but it is. We’re all busy and what we spend time on represents what we value most. Having worked on your list means that you value yourself and what you can contribute to the world.
Everyone has great ideas, creations, thoughts and things which only they can bring into the world. The world is missing so much amazing stuff though, because way too many people don’t value their potential contributions enough to spend time on the contributions or themselves.
This bothers me – a lot. First of all, you’re unique. No one else has your combination of DNA and life experiences. This means that no one else can pick up the slack and bring into the world what you’re not. Secondly, it’s soul draining sad. It’s sad that the world won’t have your stuff and it’s sad that you don’t value yourself and your stuff enough to put the time and energy needed to bring it into the world. Lastly, it’s scary. It’s not just your stuff that’s missing. Your stuff would have inspired other people’s stuff – which would have inspired even more stuff…
Seriously, what would your world be like today if your favorite school teacher had decided to just show up and do her or his job? You know they’re your favorite because they brought their unique stuff to your classroom. Whatever your age or childhood environment, there were writers, musicians, athletes, actors, racers, puppeteers, dancers, programmers, skateboarders, and real and honorary family members who inspired you and still influence you on some level today. And you haven’t stopped being influenced because you’re a grown-up.
On some level, you already know that we each have unique contributions to make to the world and an obligations to do so. The closest we come to facing it is when death brushes against our lives. We celebrate what the person shared in life. We mourn that they died so young. We dread the idea that there won’t be much to mention in our obituary. We resolve to act and then we get busy.
If you haven’t yet made a list of what you love, please stop what you doing and at least devote 3 minutes to trying to make a list. Pretty please?

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