Butterfly Dream Walking
My friend Mary Kay and I have been walking at the local zoo (the Henry Doorly Zoo) every Sunday. Lately it’s been cooler and we’ve been visiting the butterfly pavilion to warm up. I’ve enjoyed it immensely. The multitude of beautiful, varied, delicate, fluttering butterflies remind me greatly of entrepreneurial dreams. Think about it, they’re both unique, erratic, ephemeral and yet hardier than they seem.
Three weeks ago we saw a terrible site at the exit of the pavilion. A boy crushed the body of a beautiful butterfly when his parents told him he couldn’t take it with him. They seemed ashamed of his behavior, but didn’t reprimand him as he threw the dying butterfly down on the path where it fluttered its wings a bit before lying still.
This disturbing image has stuck with me the last few weeks, popping into my head at unexpected moments. It’s a powerful image and reminds me greatly of how alarmingly common it is for childish people to squash other people’s entrepreneurial dreams like that little boy crushed the butterfly. It’s also common for the people around them to not like what they’re doing, but to not call them on their behavior.
The moral of the tale? The next time you see someone squashing someone else’s dream, speak up. And if you’re ever tempted to squash a dream yourself, please pause and remember that little boy and the butterfly. Is it really your place to kill that particular butterfly dream?
P.S. The Henry Doorly Zoo is one of the many reasons I love living in Nebraska.











